Everyone spends the winter alone in their own lives.

There was a thrilling video a few days ago:

On the Huashan plank road, when a male tourist walked to the middle of the plank road, he suddenly untied his safety rope and jumped off the cliff.

The man behaved very calmly throughout the process. He just turned around and looked ahead, then opened his arms, without a word, and jumped off.

Subsequently, the official Weibo of Huashan Scenic Area stated that the preliminary judgment was a suicide, and the rest is currently under investigation.

I saw someone comment below:

"If I can't think of anything, I still play cliff jumping."

"People nowadays commit suicide at every turn, and their ability to withstand stress is too weak."

"The two people next to him are suffering, well, the psychological shadow area will not be erased in this life."

......

I don’t know the mentality of the commenter, but when I saw this scene, I was very emotional:

Maybe he came out to relax, maybe he thought about committing suicide before, maybe he tried to save himself, but at this moment, he can't hold it anymore...

We cannot know exactly what a person was thinking when he committed suicide, but it is certain that he felt some kind of hardship in his life.

As that sentence says:

"We can't see all the snow that falls in a person's life. Everyone spends the winter alone in their own lives."

The darkness before dawn is the deepest darkness.

Some time ago, an unfamous director committed suicide, causing people to sigh.

His name is Hu Qian. He is talented, but nobody appreciates him. He is a typical underachiever and poor.

He himself once sighed on Weibo: he published two books and made an art film. He took a total of 20,000 yuan in copyright fees. The film didn't have a penny, and his girlfriend ran away.

Some people say that being poor is second, and what's more terrifying is that even hope is taken away.

The self-directed and self-edited movie caused him to quarrel with the producer, and no one wants to understand him-this may be the last straw that crushes the camel.

So, this handsome boy who was 1.89 meters tall and loved to be clean, tidyed his hair and notes, wrapped his head with a long-hung rope in the corridor, and hanged himself. At the age of 29, there is no last word.

However, 5 months later, in February of this year, director Hu Qian’s posthumous work "Elephant Sitting on the Floor" won the best film at the Berlin Film Festival. The official praised this work for its stunning visual effects, "a master class." of".

However, Hu Qian can't see these anymore.

Many people regret: If he can survive, he will be a new hope for Chinese movies, and even the hope of many young people.

Yes, the darkness before dawn is the deepest darkness, but those who grit their teeth and get through it will be able to see the dawn.

It looks bright on the outside, but the heart is already full of holes.

We have a 50-year-old single elder sister in our unit. She is very energetic when she comes to work every day, and she smiles at everyone.

On the one hand, everyone feels that she is particularly positive. On the other hand, they wonder why a woman with such a good personality chooses to be single?

After getting along for a long time, after getting acquainted, I knew:

This eldest sister once married and gave birth to children, but due to a car accident, both her husband and her 5-year-old child died.

Recently, her mother was seriously ill again. In order to take care of her mother, a woman in her 50s can only run between the hospital and the company every day...

The colleague said, "She can still laugh in front of us, but she is actually supporting her with one breath."

Yes, we have never been able to see a person's heart through the outside, because under the bright appearance, the heart may have long been riddled with holes.

Later on a business trip with her, she inadvertently talked about it on the way, she said:

I thought about it when I was dead, but I actually prepared all the twine for hanging.

But at a certain moment, I thought again that I had survived such a serious car accident, so why didn't I choose to continue to live.

Think about it again, I am not even afraid of death, what else is there to be afraid of.

She has experienced the vicissitudes of life, exuding a strong light, and I can't help but remind me of a sentence from Senel:

Good luck is enviable, and defeating bad luck is even more amazing.

How did you survive the hardest time?

Just like the question I asked at the beginning of the article: How did you survive the hardest time?

The 80-year-old Chu Yuan gave the best answer.

At the 37th Hong Kong Awards Ceremony, he walked up to the stage on crutches and accepted the lifetime achievement award. His speech at the time of the award, the words and the words, the words and the cunning, the life is full.

Some people say that this is one of the most worthwhile speeches in life.

This old man It can be said that he has personally experienced Hong Kong movies from glorious to bleak, creating a box office myth, setting off an upsurge in filming ancient dragons and martial arts; also facing the tragedy of the street, being humiliated face-to-face, "cannot make movies"...

In short, it has been glorious and utterly disappointed, but looking back on the past, he just wrote lightly:

"Take care of everything in the world, let's chuckle two or three times."

He said:

Anyone, no matter how beautiful you were yesterday, no matter how frustrated you were yesterday, at dawn tomorrow, you have to get up and be a person and continue living, because tomorrow is better than yesterday, this is life.

Yes, in this life, no one will be taught to be a man by suffering several times. The feeling of being slapped and slapped by life is particularly bad.

But the experience of countless people who have come here tells us: Everyone has no skills, just awkwardly, and then at some point, those difficulties will pass.

As long as you look back on the past and don’t regret your inaction and don’t be ashamed of wasting your years, then you can proudly say to yourself: "I live up to this life!"